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Tuesday 27 August 2013

It's a Part of Us

Hello , my name is Mary Meckley. My heart if heavy for BBR to think that it could every possibly be closed.  The connection with the ranch does not die when you move on.  I suppose that is what it prepares and equips you for, moving on.  The ranch is much more than a retreat centre, much more then a riding stable, means much more than what meets the eye when you drive onto the premises.

The ranch comes alive in all seasons but perhaps the most special is when summer camp happens and you witness hundreds of kids each week , come…unload their luggage, get settled with their cabin mates , meet their new counsellor and start to engage in activities. The kids not only get to try so many different types of activities, but they build relationships and some of those relationships have proven to go on for a lifetime. These kids experience peace, happiness, healthy meals, love and most essential, they meet Jesus. The lives that have been touched, I'm not sure could ever really be "documented". 

When I came on at the ranch, I had just moved to Alberta, leaving all my family and friends in Nova Scotia…spent one semester in NBC (at the time). and then , the first summer, moved out to the ranch, not sure what to expect…a little frightened and a lot excited. 

What I experienced… how do you put to paper…how can I relay how crucial that time was for me. I guess while IN it, I didn't realize what an impact the ranch was having on my life…I had little life experience at the time and a huge part of my heart missed home. 

BBR, in turn, became my home. The staff that I grew so close to, became my family. We spent long busy summers together, learning, helping each other. We spent many cold snowy days and nights together, talking, laughing, having adventures and with all the groups and people and organizations that passed through those gates, into our lives….we were changed.  
We learned how to work together, we learned how to serve, how to work hard, how to laugh, how to honour the directors, how to respect others, respect ourselves, we were taught about Jesus and His love for us and for others

A lot was expected of us, there were high standards to achieve and those lessons, those are the things that have made me the woman I am today…those same things I now pass onto my own children. 

I arrived at BBR , alone, missing everything that was home for me and what I found, was priceless…I had a second home.  . After I left the ranch after the first "round", I was , at another point in time, years later, needing a place to stay and I was invited back with open arms, invited to come home. 

The most important thing that changed my life is that I met my husband at BBR, he has his own personal story about BBR. The 15years he spent growing up at the ranch are irreplaceable.
His mom was the cook at BBR for all of that time and he and his sisters grew up , playing in the woods, walking the road, riding the horses, canoeing the lake, climbing the wall, they had a dream childhood. The times they spent making friends, being counsellors, working in the kitchen, those are memories we often sit around and talk about. Those memories, those years…wow…what can I say…we treasure them, we thank God for them, no dollar amount could ever be placed on what some might consider a piece of land with some buildings on them. There is no price tag high enough to take the place of how the ranch is able to dig down deep into the hearts of the people who go there,work there, grow up there, meet their spouse there and have the chance to experience God's touch and favour on a place.
Hunter Meckley is my husband, he is the best man I know, the hardest worker, best dad to our 2 children, and I have no doubt in my mind that this is due to the fact of how the ranch  poured into his early years shaped him into the man he is today. 

Hunter and I will always stand by and stand up for Birch Bay Ranch. We will always and often give thanks for it. And for the future…. our son and daughter will experience Birch Bay Ranch.  It is part of us. Once it's your home, it will always be home, always be a place to return to. 

Thank you

Mary Meckley


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